I used to think that orchestrated "Date Nights" for married couples were sort of hokey but I do admit that after 29 years of marriage, I sometimes run out of ideas! So, I have 2 questions:
1) Men. In your relationship, is it YOUR responsibility to come up with the ideas or does your spouse/girlfriend contribute?
2) Has anybody used "Alphabet Dating" and how successful have you been?

If you don't know what Alphabet Dating is, that is when you plan a date using a letter of the alphabet. For example, on the "A" night we went to Anthony's restraunt for Appetizers and then went browsing the Antique store. (Yeah, I know, but she liked it)

Anybody else tried Alphabet dating? How long did it last? :)